Honest X

Explore Deeper Intimacy and Desire with Honest X: The Card Game for Real Intimate Connection

Honest X helps couples explore intimacy beyond attraction, through honest, curious conversations about desire, boundaries, and connection. With 2 volumes of thoughtful questions, it creates a safe space for vulnerability, play, and deepening emotional and physical closeness.

Explore Deeper Intimacy

Honest X is the card game that helps couples explore connection, desire, and everything in between. Real intimacy asks for more than attraction. It asks for presence. Curiosity. Safety. Play. And, yes, honesty.

Because in any relationship, there’s what you say… and then there’s what you really want to say.

Enter Honest X - a conversation card game for couples who want to explore their connection on every level: emotionally, physically, sexually, and everything in the space between.

So, what is Honest X?

It’s a two-volume card deck (included in the Starter Kit) with 199 carefully crafted questions per volume, designed to help you and your partner talk about things that matter, but often go unspoken. From emotional check-ins to boundaries, fantasies to fears, Honest X creates a container where truth feels safe, desire feels respected, and vulnerability feels mutual.

This isn’t a game of dares or a gimmick to “spice things up.” It’s a real, guided way to explore your intimacy, and it’s also a very flexible card game you can play in all kinds of ways, one-on-one with your partner, in a group of trusted friends, at a workshop or sex-positive event, or even solo for self-reflection.

Honest X is here for…

The conversations that deepen trust
The moments where you want more closeness, more clarity, or more confidence
The times when your physical connection is strong, but the emotional one needs attention, or vice versa
The playful nights, the quiet mornings, the “let’s reconnect” energy

Because intimacy isn’t just about sex, but sex is part of it. Honest X embraces the full spectrum of your relationship, helping you talk about everything from how you like to be touched to how you like to be supported.

What kinds of questions are in the decks?

Think bold. Think reflective. Think surprisingly fun. Each card opens a door.

From Volume One:

“How do you define sexuality differently to sensuality?”
“Describe how you would like to be felt?”
“How do you hope to make your partner(s) feel emotionally during sex?”

From Volume Two:

“Do you think there's a difference between fantasies and desires? How would you distinguish them?”
“How do you feel about playful power dynamics in seduction?”
“How would you describe your ideal sensory experience during foreplay?”

Together, these decks offer a slow burn. You can move at your own pace, one question at a time, or dive deep during a night in. You get to choose the tempo. The goal isn’t to perform, it’s to understand.

How it compares to {THE AND} Couples Edition

While our {THE AND} Couples Edition explores the emotional layers of a relationship, your history, your values, your bond, Honest X is here to take you into the territory of intimacy and desire.

They pair beautifully. One helps you understand your partnership. The other helps you express what you want inside it.

Play it how you want. Just play it honestly.

You can use Honest X:

During an intentional date night
As a monthly relationship check-in ritual
While navigating shifts in your sex life
After conflict, to rebuild emotional and physical closeness
As a way to get playful and curious, together
While journaling about yourself and your sensuality
During a solo moment of pleasure
In a group of trusted friends for a guided intimacy conversation
At a workshop or sex-positive event to spark meaningful dialogue

There’s no script. No pressure. Just real questions that meet you where you are, and help you get where you want to go, as a team.

Because intimacy isn’t just about being close, it’s about being clear.

Clear about what you want. What you’re curious about. What’s working. What’s evolving. Honest X helps couples make space for all of it: the laughter, the heat, the tenderness, the growth.

And sometimes, the sex gets better when the honesty gets real.

Explore the Honest X Starter Kit →Discover Volume Two →